"(this is long, but worth it. please read!!!)
if i could give you one piece of advice, that you take to heart right at this moment, it would be to never base your happiness on one person.
Let me explain to you why.
No matter how much effort you put into a relationship with anyone, it does not mean they will stay.
Anyone could leave your life, just as fast as they entered it, without a second thought about you.
Don’t ever let someone take away your hope.
Just because one person couldn’t see how amazing you are, doesn’t mean the rest wont.
That doesn’t make you a bad person.
I learned that the hard way.
So, you fall for someone. And they break your heart.
It happens way too often.
Please don’t let it make you feel like you’re worthless.
Don’t sulk over them.
If someone makes you feel bad for ANYTHING, drop them.
They are toxic.
I don’t care how much you feel the need to make them happy,
if they made you cry more than smile,
you dont need them in your life.
Find someone who completes you.
You wanna flirt with everyone? You fucking flirt with everyone.
You wanna try with different types of people? You try with different types of people.
You wanna start dating again soon? You fucking do as you please.
You wanna wait? Then take all the time you need.
NO ONE is in control of your life, except yourself.
No one should ever make you feel bad for the choices you make in life.
Because you only have one life to live. So you make it the best it can be.
I promise you.
You wont always get hurt.
Someone will love you for ever mistake you make, every thing you are, every flaw you see.
There’s someone for everyone.
It just might take you awhile to find them.
Your life is your own adventure.
Your life is your own story.
Write it however you want."